We Met On CG. We Are Now Legally Married!

“Nothing you do in the Lord’s service is ever useless” 1 Cor. 15:58 b

Dear Mary:

We are SO thankful for the work you are doing with Christian Gays.

We met there some months ago. We were so far away, José in Dominican Republic and me in Portugal.

We both were lonely and prayed before we met and … we met! Now we are legally married and SO happy.

We praise God for your ministry and we send you this mail to encourage you to realize that your work in the Lord is not useless.

We praise and thank God for your ministry. Without it we would never have met.

May God bless you very much. We sent some photos of our marriage day.

Yours in Jesus:
José and Fernando

Fernando and Jose met on Christian Gays

January 21, 2018 – Update

Dear Mary:

Do you remember us?  Five years ago we met in Christian Gays.  Me, Fernando, from Portugal and José from Dominican Republic.  We married in 25th May the same year.

Now, five years later we are each time more happy.  We bought our own home in Faro, a beautiful city in Algarve (South Portugal).  I teach there in a High School and José works in his artistic work.

José asked for the Portuguese nationality and since 10 months he is Portuguese.  Portugal is SO beautiful.

Portugal is a very gay friendly country.  To be gay here is not a problem.  Even my mother, who is 85 now, after some time of adaptation is very happy and loves José like he was his son.  My three daughters also love him very much.

I remember, 5 years ago, I was so sad and I prayed the Lord before trying again to make a real contact in Christian Gays that in DR there was a man doing the same prayer.  God is so good!!!

May the Lord bless you and your ministry.  We keep you in our prayers and in our hearts.

Yours in Christ:
Fernando and José

A New Family Is Created

Hello Momma Mary,

I don’t know if you remember me, but I was a part of Christian Gays about five years ago when I lived in Kitchener, Ontario.

Once upon a time in your chat room, I met Scott and Kelly. Scott and I have since adopted each other as brother and sister, and Kelly, well, she and I have been together for the last five years, got married last year, and had a baby this past May, along with her two other children.

We thank you for your vision of Christian Gays for bringing us together and we have never been happier.

So thank you in your part in bringing this family together.

God bless and much love to you,


June 2016 Update:

As you know, I met Kelly on here almost 10 years ago, and we’re still together, and have since added a child to the 2 she already had. We are a family of 5 living in Northern California now.

We are still close friends with Scott Williamson, now an ordained Minister for the UCC church in Cookeville, TN. He is doing great, and is Uncle Scott to the kids.

Without you and CG, we wouldn’t have the family we do today!!

Our wedding picture is attached!! (this was almost 3 years ago now)

Bene Ruiz

Bene & Kelly Wedding

“You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32

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